Sexually Unsatisfied! My Husband Comes Too Quick During S*x

A married woman has reached out  to TLI for advise on how to solve a delicate marital problem. According
to her she has been enduring many years of unsatisfied s*x with her husband who is unromantic and reaches orgasm too quickly.
Please read her mail and advise her.


Dear readers,

I am really bitter inside of me. Just three years after we married and my husband still cannot satisfy me. He comes too fast during s*x and doesn't care if I am satisfied. He just puts his manhood inside and within a short time, he is done. He is also very unromantic.

I feel sad about s*x because I don't enjoy it. I am beginning to think of taking risks outside my marriage because he is not even helping matters. Yes, we are very religious people and we didn't engage in s*x during our courtship.

I didn't know things would turn out this bad. He doesn't know how to handle a woman in bed. I feel cheated being with him. I love him but without s*x, I cannot survive in this marriage. The worst part is that he hardly initiates s*x. I am the one always tempting him. He seems totally uninterested. What really went wrong? I feel I am missing out barely three years into this marriage.

What do I do? Help me before I do something stupid.

-Anonymous married woman.

Mrs Anonymous, I think you need to discuss the issues with him instead of dying in silence. Talk to him and show concern when you do so. Show that you care about him and encourage him to seek medical help. Please do not make him feel less a man when you discuss the issue. 

It would hurt him to know he can not/does not satisfy you sexually so please tread carefully without hurting his ego. 

You can also teach him to touch you in the right places and how you want to be touched. Teach him to be romantic, I bet he would be happy to learn

If after his condition persists after medical treatment.... Madam, i permit you to do something stupid! (just joking)